From California to France: A Journey of Challenges
After relocating from San Francisco to France in October 2023, Joanna McIsaac-Kierklo and her husband, Ed Kierklo, are considering a return to the United States just over a year later. Initially hopeful for a new chapter in their lives, the couple has encountered numerous obstacles that have overshadowed their expectations.
Frustrations in a New Land
Joanna, 74, and Ed, 75, envisioned spending their golden years immersed in the charm of France. However, they quickly faced difficulties, particularly in social integration and navigating the intricacies of French bureaucracy. “We gave it a year here, and we just said, ‘Too much grief and no joy.’ There’s no fun. We’re struggling every day,” Joanna stated, expressing her feelings of exhaustion and frustration.
The Search for Community
The couple has struggled to forge friendships in their new environment. Joanna described their attempt to acclimatize as a “nightmare,” noting their increasing frustration with the local bureaucracy. “I honestly don’t think we could have put in any more effort,” she added, highlighting their unexpected challenges in socializing and community building.
Relocations and Complications
Uprooting their lives from California was not a decision taken lightly. The couple had previously traveled extensively and sought a peaceful life, free from the stresses they faced in the U.S. They initially moved to Nîmes, where they had enjoyed a two-month stay. However, upon permanent relocation, they encountered complications, including visa hurdles and difficulties in arranging pet transport.
Navigating Everyday Life
Joanna expressed dismay over the quality of local produce and cultural adjustments when it came to food. “You go to the supermarket, and the produce is terrible,” she remarked, indicating a stark contrast between her culinary expectations and reality. She also struggled with learning the French language and felt overwhelmed by the bureaucratic maze of daily life.
Healthcare and Socialization Challenges
Finding healthcare providers proved to be another hurdle, as Joanna recounted the frustration of being turned away by multiple doctors. “You have to find a general practitioner who will take you on as a patient,” she explained. The couple felt isolated due to linguistic barriers, which hindered their ability to form connections in their new community.
A Shift in Perspective
Despite some initial happiness in their new surroundings, both Joanna and Ed have realized that France might not be the long-term solution they had hoped for. “I love France, but to live here is another story,” Joanna said, reflecting on her bittersweet experience.
Looking Back and Moving Forward
With plans to return to the U.S. in January 2024, Joanna poignantly noted, “I don’t want to say we failed. But it just didn’t work out.” The couple now grapples with the complexities of shipping their possessions back while contemplating their experiences abroad.
Conclusion: No Regrets
Although their dreams of a serene life in France have not materialized as anticipated, Joanna emphasized having no regrets about their journey. “It still remains one of the most spectacular countries to visit,” she concluded, reflecting on the lessons learned during their time abroad.
